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LOVE'S
LABOURS
Love Upon the Chopping Board, by Marou Izumo and Claire
Maree. Melbourne: Spinifex, 2000.
Reviewed by Tania Oost
Love Upon the Chopping Board is a biography, or
duography, co-written by Japanese born Marou Izumo and Australian
born Claire Maree (or JJ as she refers to herself). Meeting
in a bar in Shinjuku Ni-Chome, Tokyo, Marou and Claire soon
fall in love, move in together and become politically involved
in gay liberation efforts in Japan. This book is their combined
accounts of their relationship and of the subversive joys
and oppressive hardships to be found when living as a gay
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Love Upon the Chopping Board effectively elucidates
the entrenched oppression inherent in heterosexist and patriarchal
bureaucracy, and always these two women are inspiring for
their uncompromising confrontation with the powers-that-be.
In Japan, for example, it is unheard-of to live legitimately
as a gay couple. While straight couples must marry to gain
the full legal rights of a family, this is not an option open
to, or even often desired by lesbian couples. However, those
lesbian women who would prefer to be 'protected' under family
law have occasionally adopted their partners in a pseudo mother-daughter
relation in order to secure the legal papers and rights that
would be afforded to a conventional Japanese family. This
hardly seems ideal because the 'mother' could conceivably
hold more power in the relationship than the 'daughter' and,
if the relationship ended, who would have the right over property?
Izumo explains that in order to gain the social recognition
that they both need and have a right to, they must not participate
in the very institutions which oppress them and that efface
their real identities. Instead they follow closely the sentiments
of Hashimoto Osamu who writes that 'lovers throw away conventions
and promises of love, to fly beyond the earth. If these lovers
fall to earth, it will be because of the gravitational pull
of single pieces of paper.' (10)
Yet it is these small pieces of paper that make such a difference
in their lives. Claire Maree provides an insight into being
a 'gaijin' or foreigner in Japan and the problems of obtaining
visas and accommodation as a foreign woman. She is forced
to return to Australia to complete her degree before her visa
can be extended in Japan. Finding accommodation back in Japan
is difficult for 'single friends' living together, being apparently
less reliable than a (presumably nuclear) family. Izumo must
provide a respectable family seal, or stamp (either her doctor-father's
or another professional's) which functions as a signature
and guarantor for any lease.
In many ways living in a lesbian relationship demands that
they reinvent the wheel. Together they create the first legal
Joint Living Agreement for same-sex couples in Japan, which
gives each partner the legal right to decide on what will
be done with the property and body of the other upon her death.
Their feelings of exclusion and invisibility, both as lesbian
individuals and as a legitimate couple, lead them almost inevitably
towards positive political action. From their tiny one room
apartment, which they share with long-time feline companion
Nyan Nyan, they instigate and organise protests, gay-pride
parades, plays and underground magazines. In its detail these
chapters resembles a 'how to' guide for arranging and staging
such events.
Many of Izumo's chapters diverge from this theme and she provides
a compelling and insightful account of her upbringing in a
very traditional and patriarchal Japanese family. She was
raised to be submissive and to use submissive language towards
her father, and when she questioned her role in the family,
she was told simply that it is her place because she is a
girl. Secrecy and denial were the silent rule in her home
and Izumo feels unable to ever discuss her own desires or
sexuality within the family, for 'it is better to say nothing'
than to disrupt the family. Her feelings of indignation, anger
and frustration throughout her account are palpable. She also
shares with the reader her first true love, her elopement
and eventual abandonment as a young woman, and one gets the
feeling her stories are told for their cathartic effect.
Each chapter shifts from one topic and voice to another in
a kaleidoscope of personal childhood memories, experiences,
Japanese lesbian history, and a 'how to' guide for political
activism. Being mainly composed of several chapters originally
published in Japanese and solely written by Izumo, Maree's
own contribution comes only in this second edition published
for English readers. Perhaps for this reason, it at times
seems disjointed and unsure of what it means to say. Nevertheless
it provides a nice insight into the women's relationship,
and into their determined personalities. Its historical references
are also a compelling read for the uninitiated.
Tania Oost is an Honours Student in Women's Studies at
The University of Queensland.
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